“Dad, How Do I?” – Turning Loss Into a Legacy of Love

When he was just 14 years old, Rob Kenney lost his father. Overnight, the steady presence and guidance every boy longs for vanished, leaving a void that could have easily defined his life. Yet instead of allowing that wound to harden him, Rob chose a different path. He carried the pain with him, but years later, he found a way to transform it into something beautiful—something that would touch millions of lives.

Rob created a YouTube channel called “Dad, How Do I?” with a simple yet profound mission: to teach basic life skills to kids who might not have a father to show them. His videos cover everything from tying a tie, changing a tire, and fixing a leaky faucet to shaving for the first time. Practical lessons, yes—but delivered with kindness, patience, and the gentle reassurance of a dad who wants the best for you.

What makes his channel extraordinary isn’t just the “how-to” content—it’s the heart behind it. For many children and young adults growing up without fathers, Rob has become a virtual dad, a voice that says: “You’re not alone. You matter. I’m proud of you.”

The channel exploded in popularity, especially during the early days of the COVID-19 pandemic, when isolation and uncertainty left many craving comfort and connection. Millions subscribed, not only for the lessons but for the fatherly presence Rob embodied. Viewers often share that his words and demeanor have helped fill a painful gap in their own lives, reminding them that love and guidance can still be found in unexpected places.

Rob’s story is a testament to the power of resilience. The loss that could have embittered him instead became the very reason he chose to give. By helping others, he found healing for himself. And by sharing simple skills wrapped in kindness, he gave the world something far more valuable: hope.

His journey reminds us that even the deepest losses can be transformed into gifts. Sometimes, the best way to heal your own heart is by helping others heal theirs.